With every journey there is a start and an end. The start is exciting and full of hope and dreams of what the end of the journey will look like. There seems to be a crowd cheering as you leave, all waving you off, you may even catch some looks of envy and admiration, as you walk through. Your heart is beating wildly and your thoughts are filled with pictures of greatness, snapshots of you standing victorious at the end of your journey, may it be at the top of your mountain or at the destination of your choice. The exhilaration of having had the courage to make the first few steps out of your comfort zone spurs you on, helping you not to even look back.
The last thing you think about is the bit in the middle. The actual journey. Yes, there is great bravery in starting the journey and great celebration in completing the journey, but what we almost always seem to forget is that there is a journey in between. It is the stuff that builds, breaks down and then builds again. This is where the real courage and bravery is needed and developed. This is actually what the journey is all about.
Starting off on my journey, as you will remember from my last blog, began with a flying leap of faith. It started off as most journeys’ do, filled with hope and “romance” and a belief that nothing and nobody can stop you. It is like when you begin a journey with a car full of children, there is much excitement leading up to the journey and even the first few minutes of the journey. There is much chatter about what we will do and what we will see. After 10 minutes you will hear the first “Are we there yet?” or “How long ‘till we get there?” Soon after that you will hear the “He is touching me” or “He is on my side” or “I’m hungry”. After a while the joy of the journey is tested.
This past week the weariness and frustration finally caught up with me. I got to the point where I sat down in the blistering sun of my desert road, the water was finished, and the food all gone and I felt very much alone and said “I give up”. My feet refused to move forward and all hope of ever seeing the top of my mountain or the finish line were suddenly all gone. The doubts and accusations were loud and relentless. Confusion set in and I suddenly began to wonder if I was still going in the right direction, everything looked unfamiliar, dark and dangerous. Fear started creeping up my spine as I heard the voice say, “Did He really say?”, "Who do you think you are anyway?" and “You are not worthy for this purpose”.
I was invited to an “Ugly Betty” evening at Deo Dax (Thank you to the ladies who organised it, it was an evening of excellence, passion and sincerity)and before I left home that night I asked God, no actually pleaded “to please speak loud”. I smile as I type this as I am so grateful I serve a living interested God and not some empty statue, concept or religion. The evening was full of meaningful moments which spoke to my discouraged heart, but He didn’t leave it there, the tears poured down my cheeks as the worship songs we sang were handpicked with me in mind and then the cherry on the top, a word from a stranger using the very same scripture God had given me at the start of my journey to confirm and bring courage, then another strangers arms were around me asking me to come with her and they lead me to a place prepared for prayer with water flowing, where a new friend watered me and refreshed with prayer and love me and then a letter written by a stranger to a stranger trusting God that it would be life to the receiver, with words that were inspired straight from the heart of God.
These are the words I wrote as I sat later that night taking it all in:
“My heart was so heavy tonight, I was ready to give up. The worship was so sweet, I wept. Someone stood up and spoke about the Eagle from Isaiah 40:31. About having God’s perspective. Yes Lord I will wait….
Today I sat down and said I can’t, but you came and gently, lovingly took my chin by your finger and lifted my head, you picked my up. You embraced me and poured your living water into my soul, my tired and weary soul, you calmed my fears, you breathed hope and courage into my heart, you set my shoulders straight and placed me back on the path and you whispered in my ear, “Fear not for I am with you. I will not fail you, I will not leave you and I will not disappoint you. I love you. You are mine, Princess. It is not too difficult for you. I made this path with you in mind, go and bless others.
Isaiah 40:29, 31
He gives power to the faint and weary, and to him who has no might He increases strength [causing it to multiply and making it to abound].
But those who wait for the Lord [who expect, look for, and hope in Him] shall change and renew their strength and power; they shall lift their wings and mount up [close to God] as eagles [mount up to the sun]; they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint or become tired.
So if your journey has become less than fun and the temptation of giving up and turning back is great, let me encourage you to look up to the One who is never far away and always ready to show Himself faithful through His Word, and through His people.
I am ready to leave the oasis because I know the One who lives in me is the Oasis creator, He is my everything!!!